Syllogistically Speaking

I’ve realized that I’m at a place in my life that don’t need a woman. What I mean is that I don’t need a woman to take care of me or to make me happy. I manage to remember to shower and feed myself most of the time, and I’m pretty darn happy with my life. However, I think the only way that I’ll stop opting to fall asleep in my recliner instead of going to bed is through the influence of a woman. So, syllogistically speaking, if going to sleep in a bed instead of a recliner is a beneficial to me, and a woman is the only way to get me to bed from my recliner, then a woman is beneficial to me. Or at least deductive reasoning would argue such.

Updating my status...

Matthew is losing touch with his dreams. In the wake of the apparent losses he is forging new ones. Dreams of waking to the sunrise. Of bicycling from Denver, Colorado to Eastland, Texas. Of doing what he has always been afraid to do. Of giving the best he has on behalf of another and never expecting anything in return. Of really not caring what others think. Of losing his life to find it. Of letting another praise him, and not his own lips. Of being joyful always. Of becoming a servant to all.

The Answer in the Anomaly

Because a smile broke out this weekend more times than I can count. And I meant every one. Because a friend asked me questions I couldn’t answer, and I found peace in that. Because I woke up late but got there right on time. Because a coffee shop conversation found mystery in hope.

Because a promise realized pays the debt of patience tenfold.

the one

Some day I'll stop being "the one who got away" and start being the one who will never leave.

Rules of Consumption

If, hypothetically, one were to get a beer buzz (some might say beer 'drunk') on a Saturday night, one should follow that up with a whiskey buzz (some might say whiskey 'drunk') on Monday night. After doing so, one might realize that this talk of “alcohol tolerance” may, in fact, be a myth.

The New Romance

A touch of the leg, a brush of the hand and I’m sure that I’m just a pawn in a move that breaks every rule of every game that we’ve made but who’s for rules because the joy is in the breaking out of the noise that ended you last time and who’s to say(?) such a double-edged play might end with you in or near my bed or at least leave you feeling less dead than the night when loneliness put a bullet through you.

A Broken Temple

If my body is a temple, then it’s a broken one. Shattered stained glass and cracks in the foundation. Only just standing. And now it’s poisoned. I didn’t do the breaking but I drank the poison because I thought the only antidote for pain would be numbness.

I desperately need a mason and a carpenter and stained-glass painter who can fix this mess of a hollowed-out holy place unfit for a savior of your kind. But the shingles are slipping and the arches are crumbling. Please come quickly. Please come quickly.

I'm not very good at being alone at night

And some times it gets to me.

“Swan dive swing vote”

That was the title of the piece I tried to write last night. As I typed, words eased onto the page with subtle threads of sound laced throughout and signification as dense as a sonnet. But then it stopped. I didn’t want it to, so I pushed it, shoving more words in, forcing creation into intent until the very subject matter of the work played out once again, as if in an absurdist drama rife with irony. A heated exchange of signals in my brain and a balance of chemicals being tipped to a disadvantage, for me, but potentially advantageous to any who might read it and think so this is what madness sounds like.

PANTS!

These are the pants I'm wearing right now:




They are more awesome than you can ever hope to be.

Perplexed

Two times in the past two days on two separate occasions, a beautiful girl has smiled really big and waved at me as I was riding by on my bicycle. Both times I kinda sensed that they were expecting me to stop and talk to them. But I didn't stop either time. Because I was convinced they thought I was someone they knew.

unimpressive thoughts

1) People like photos with people in them. I've been watching the number of hits on some recent photos I posted to flickr, and I've found this to be true.

2) I am the only person on my hall who actually lives here. The lady in apartment 3312 had a postcard stuck in her door for over two months. Yesterday morning, the FexEx man left a package in front of the door of apartment 3309. And it was still there when I got home at midnight tonight. I haven't heard my next door neighbor in weeks, and I've never even seen the person who lives in the aparment across from mine. On my hall, I am the only person, actually, who lives here.

I guess it begins again

Running into you in places I didn't plan to be. Surprised every time, I never get out what I want to say. That your hair looks great grown long. That your perfume smells beautiful, if smell can be such. Instead I talk small and have no idea what I’m saying. Because your eyes. They captivate, enthralling all of me.

Blessed

Because I’ve found a love I can't conceive.
Because a heart turned to stone has started to beat again.
Because I’ll love till it hurts, then I’ll love some more.
Because I’ve discovered the secret.
Because the cynics speak hollowed-out claims, halfheartedly.
Because a life in his name is never safe.
Because the cracks let the light come in.
Because “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.”
Because Death has no victory.
Because he’s opened my eyes to see it.
Blessed.
Because we all are. Every single one of us.

Amazing Grace, How Sweet the Sound

I love you because it hurts to. Because you kill me. And nothing makes me feel more alive than dying.

I’m starting to see something divine in that. You will never be who I need you or want you to be, and that somehow makes it better. Gives me peace. Because that’s who I am to him. I am the one who falls down, runs away, slaps his face. Then begs for help. I am the one who can never be the man he wants me to be. But just once, I swear, I wish I could say that I even tried to be.

Fucked

Because I thought I’d found ‘the one,’ again. And was wrong, again.
Because bad decisions leave scars like sloppy incisions in permanent marks.
Because in times like these, alone is the scariest place to be.
Because a death wish is a life wish gone to hell.
Because yesterday may have been the best day of my life.
Because I can never save you from what he’s done.
Because I’ll break my vow again tonight.
Because I’ll lie and make you think I’m alright.
Because it’s in my genes, a double helix jinx.
Because I’m more than you can handle.
Fucked.
Because we all are. Every single one of us.

Shh...

I love doctor appointments. Over the past few years, I’ve seen sinus doctors (4), allergists (2), general practitioners (2), and an orthopod. I go in and tell them what is wrong. And they listen. Really listen. And that’s what I love about it. Because no one listens anymore.

Surprise

I'm starting to see my life as the day of a surprise birthday party. But the minutes become months and I'm still waiting for everyone to jump out and scream "Surprise."

A Ghostly Jest

I live in a wing of the old St. Luke’s Hospital, built in the 1930s, that some developers gutted and turned into industrial-style lofts. I’ve heard rumors that this had been the pediatrics wing. A few months ago, they put in a new elevator. It has had numerous problems and has been shut down for repairs quite frequently. The latest “quirk” is that once you step in and push the button for the floor you want to go to, the door starts to shut, then opens again four times, finally closing on the fifth. Just yesterday, I noticed that this problem had either been repaired or stopped on its own.

Last night when I came home around 1 a.m., I stepped into the elevator and pushed the button for the third floor. The doors shut on the first try, but then the car didn’t move. The doors opened to let me out, still on the first floor. I pushed the circular button labeled "3" again and got the same result. A bit frustrated, I just walked out of the elevator and started up the stairs, which are right next to the elevator shaft. After climbing five or six stairs, I heard the doors to the elevator close and the car start to go up. I came out of the stairwell on the third floor, and right as I was walking in front of the elevator doors, they opened. My rationality wanted to laugh it off as the failure of modern mechanics. But the immediate chill that ran up my spine and down my arms made me wonder if I wasn’t the object of a prank from a child who might have never left the hospital. As I walked down the long corridor to my apartment door, I looked over my shoulder several times to make sure that the unseen was at least staying that way.

This Round Is On Me

Left alone with my insecurities, your words replay in my head. Over and over. “Why are you so self-conscious?” This is not an issue that should come up on the first night we’ve met. But it does and I am and I've got no response. Look away. Pint glass to lips and swallow. I’m not good at hiding and I know why I’ve never played this game. Because the best liar always wins.